Here is a collection of some useful
information found around the Internet
for advice, tips, hints, clues, and techniques
on breaking up a relationship. Enjoy!

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Breaking Up

Breaking up is hard to do. There are so many feelings that go along with the conflict and disillusionment when a marriage falls apart. Knowing the laws, worrying about the legalities, facing divorce or annulment are stressful concerns.

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From http://www.romanceclass.com/
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Breaking Up

Yes, breaking up is hard to do. We've all gone through it, we've all cried and thought it would never end. But life does go on, and it actually gets much better!

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Breaking Up : Quotes about Breaking Up - Accepting : Breaking up

If I was good enough to you I would not break your heart as I have. If I was good enough to myself I would not let me feel the pain as closely as I do.

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Breaking Up : How to Break Up : break up via e-mails...

i think breaking up with someone can be done in many ways including e-mails.when u use dis way,it doesnt mean u r coward,in fact its 1 of d most calm way to express d sour feeling,especially for gals...because most of d gals r emotional n prefer not to face their partners when delivering this kinda news..they don have enough courage or guts to hurt their partners n to c his face when he hears dis news n finally end up by getting more emotional n reuniting again.but when expressing thru e-mails,they can actually sit,think n type calmly n express whateva they wanna say without fear.this not only good for d gals but also for d guys whom receiving the news..it gives guys d chances 2 sit n read them calmly n slowly understand d situation n wat d gal actually wanna say n hw do she feels deep in her heart...n at d same time it can avoids any kind of unpleasent response like bursting out or slam d car door.but remember gals,u must also give him chance to talk over dis matter.respect his views n listen wat he says first...clear all d doubts n answer him if he ask any..don juz let d relationship end with lots of Question mark..clarify everythin n take a wise decision...

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Breaking Up : How to Break Up : Breaking Up Is Hard To Do...

But if BOTH partners aren't in whole heartedly, it can be stressful and hard. It must be done. To keep yourself from regretting the breakup, remember all the things that brought you to that point. That will help transition to being a stronger person. Know that you did the right thing and followed your heart.

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Breaking Up : How to Break Up : Breaking up with him without hurting him

This afternoon i am going to break up with my boyfriend. We've only been going out for a month and a half but I just feel liek it's not working. We have been friends for ages and all that sort of went away from the moment he asked me out.

When I tell him this I know i am going to feel guilty because i have a feeling he likes me quite a bit and that he isnt expecting it. I was thinking of waiting a little but then I realised that there was no point. If you really believe its nnot going well and its not going to improve then just get it over and done with.

This afternoon im simply going to tell him the truth: face to face. As I see him every day at work I feel a text or note would just make it seriously awkward. Im going express that I just liked it best when we were friends which i know may sound so typical but in this case it really is the truth. I just hope that when it is done, he wont look at me like ive wounded him too badly. I hate causing pain, especially to people i do care for.

If you are thinking of doing the same thing, try and imagine the scene. Don't reherse too much but I think it helps to imagine how he will react and ways you could make him feel better without sounding too smug or cliched (for example: you deserve some1 SO MUCH better).

Good luck to anyone, rght now im quite nervous but I think I will feel a lot better when it is done. Hopefully tonight I can feel not only guilt but a lot of relief pass over me.

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Breaking Up : How to Break Up : Breaking Up???

Well my name is Juan and it is extremely hard for me to brake up with my girlfriend of 2yrs and counting. From what I've read from the breaking up tips I managed to borrow some lines like "growing apart," "different interests," and "not the right one anymore". It's hard for me trying to brake up with my gf because I was never the one trying to brake up with a relationship, it was always my ex's who broke up with me, and since I know how it feels, it is hard for me to do so. I know that it is hard and that I will pass through a difficult time but after time I hope that GOD brings me happiness!!!

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Breaking Up : How to Break Up : BREAKING-UP THROUGH E-MAIL

DON'T DO IT! MY BOYFRIEND OF 14 MONTHS JUST BROKE UP WITH ME THROUGH E-MAIL LAST NIGHT AND THAT WAS ONE OF THE MOST HORRIBLE EXPERIENCES OF MY LIFE. IT MAKES YOU LOOK LIKE A COWARD.

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Breaking Up : How to Break Up : focus on feelings

breaking up can be hard for you and ur ex make sure that you NEVER use the old lines (e.g its not you its me, its not working, i like someone else) keep it straight and true because if your not true to your feelings and his then how on earth is he ment to feel?

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Breaking Up : How to Break Up : How to Break Up

Breaking up is never easy. There is always two sides to each story. I read several of the tips, because I just broke up with my boyfriend via email and breaking up via email or messenger is not being COWARD. This person is doing the best that they can do at the time and may have valid reasons for doing so. I just broke up via email and certainly don't consider myself a COWARD. I did this to take care of myself because he has show signs of rage. I owned the part I played in the relationship and sent him this email:

Again, I wish I could sit across the table from you and tell you this, but this is the best I can do.

I feel that neither one of us is happy. I know, I’m not and I feel your not.

I have made several errors in this relationship. Let me explain.

The first one is using the words “No matter what.” I said those words with good intentions, however I was not able to live up to the integrity behind them and I now know just how much power I carry with my words and hope that I will do better in the future.

Second, I also said that I was willing to work on our relationship and that the work would be tough and most people wouldn’t want to do it and it is indeed too difficult for me to do.

We, I used the words “I love you”, without really knowing what that means. Love, true love means that both partners hold each other in warm personal regard most of the time. True love, also carries with it respect for the other person. When I told you “I loved you”, I used those words too loosely, then the new wore off. When we got serious about our relationship, it wasn’t fun anymore and relationships should be fun. I just don’t have these feelings anymore. Relationships are work and I know that, but when you have to work just to like each other something is wrong.

Our relationship has given me several blessings – I now value my worth and I know I’m here to serve God. I thank you and God for teaching me these things.

I hope you will be able to accept my apology, if not today, maybe one day.

I also, realize you are going to go through a lot of emotions again, and again for my part in that I deeply apologize

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Breaking Up : How to Break Up : The break-up guilt

Breaking up with someone is always painful. Hopefully you have been talking up until now and realize that something is not right in the relationship. If you have never given your partner a clue that you are unhappy, this should sound warning bells. The exact same thing could happen in the next relationship. Be sure to talk about things that make you unhappy BEFORE you get to the break-up stage.

However, let´s assume you´ve talked about things, but they just won´t fix, and you just aren´t meant for each other. You will still feel guilty if you´re the one who throws in the towel and says the relationship won´t work. After all, you´ve both opened your hearts to each other, tried to make things work, tried to be there for each other, and now you´re saying you don´t want to try any more.

Realize that most relationships end in breakup - it takes a few tries before you manage to find the right partner. This is a normal thing. You gave it your best shot, and you simply weren´t meant for each other. If you are honest and thoughtful in your breakup, then you have done both of you a favor. You are now free to find someone better suited for you, and your partner is now free to find someone new that is a perfect match.

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Breaking Up : Quotes about Breaking Up - Growth : Close a Door, Open a Window

Breaking up is the closing of the door, but if you always leave a window open, there is a chance to get back in if desired.

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Breaking Up : Quotes about Breaking Up - Humorous : The Coke Machine

Breaking up is like trying to tip over a coke machine; you can't do it in one push, you have to rock it back and forth a couple of times. --Jerry Seinfeld

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Breaking Up : Quotes about Breaking Up - Painful : Breaking up is Hard to Do

Don't take your love
Away from me
Don't you leave my heart
In misery
If you go
Then I'll be blue
Cause breakin' up is hard to do

'Breaking up is Hard to Do' by Neil Sedaka

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Breaking Up : Should We Break Up? : Breaking up

I know that breaking up with someone is the hardest thing to do. But let me tell ya something, your heart will tell ya when something isn't right !! GO by that HONESTLY. Personally I've been in a relationship for almost 4 years he was my everything, I thought he was the love of my life. But the older I got I soon wondered if he really was? The truth of the matter is, you know when your heart skips a beat when you see that person, and you know when your heart doesn't. People act like they can change how they feel. You CANT change how you feel and if you could, people wouldn't have the problems in relationships they do. If you feel like maybe this truly isn't what you want in a relationship, it's time to leave. I know it's hard expecially if you have been with them for a long time, or are worried about finding that right person, or for the fear of being alone. And the answer to that is that's normal. You may be affraid, but the longer you drag a unhappy relationship, the more unfair it is to the other person. Or you can stay with them, and always think well what if I broke up with them when I first had these feelings? The longer you stay with them the harder it will be for them, and thats not fair to either of you. Love is a two way street, you either want to love them and be with them, or do both of you a favor and get out. When you start to fall out of love Bad things can happen, cheating is the number one of things that happens when you fall out of love. And if you cheat that is a Red flag that that person really isn't for you. You don't hurt people you love and if you do you don't love them.

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Breaking Up : Should We Break Up? : breaking up

if your not sure weather he or she is not the right one for you or you like somone else who think is the one for you. Tell that person that it isnt working out and that you need time to think about your relation ship. Im in that situation at the moment and i love the guy but i like a guy who goes to my school and i think that the person who is closer to me is the right one for me. Also tell them that can you stay friends and thta your sorry but your not sure that your relation ship might not work and that you need time to think and thta you might want them back if you think that youer relation ship is ok. Dont be scared to tell thtat person that your relation ship might be bad if your scared get a reliative or a close friend to do it.

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Breaking Up : Should We Break Up? : But what if you still don't know?

All these tips offer the common sense perspective that you need when breaking up, but how come, to me, a person deciding whether to carry on with the relationship or not, does not of this seem to matter?

How do you know if it is you who is being put down by the partner? If they tell you it is all in your head, why not believe them. They are the person you trust enough to get serious with in the first place. My partner has never cheated, he is honest, intellegent, selfless. I am the opposite. I am weak and not good enough. I just want to be with him, and that isn't enough for him anymore. I hate being so unsure. Because I am a rational person. I am intellegent when it comes to things academic. He tells me I shouldn't act the way I do. That I have no social skills. He tells me I am wrong. And i believe him, i believe it really is true. Im sure it is. and that just makes my shyer and more reclused. I thought he was putting me down, making me down, but he doesn't see it. No matter what I say he has an answer. He has a way of making everything my fault. But I cant live without him. I love him. Why is love so complicated. So contradictory. I'm sorry this isnt a tip, but i just wanted people in a similar situation to me, that everything will be ok, and you arent the only one.

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Breaking Up : Should We Break Up? : Don't date on the rebound

If you're thinking of breaking up, don't wait until you've found someone else. It's important to get over one relationship before starting the next. How do you know when you're ready for another relationship? You're ready when you don't need one. You should be able to sustain yourself without always thinking how much better life would be with someone in your life. Wanting to share your life with someone someday is fine, but thinking your life is miserable without a partner is just setting you up for all kinds of problems. Deal with yourself first, and get the special someone later.

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Breaking Up : Should We Break Up? : When it's time to break up

ok i have been thinking about breaking up w/ my bf for about 2 out of the 4 months we've been dating, and i realize now that i should have dumped him a long time ago, like, when skool got out and i suggested breaking up so we'd be 'free' over the summer, but he's so indecisive that we just stayed together. i now have to face breaking up w/ him after dating him for even longer than i did then. So if you think that you're in a bad relationship or if you just want to break up, you need to sit down with him or her and do it!! it's not worth waiting and dragging out something that's not gonna work. like me, you might be afraid of hurting them, but trust me, it's better for both of you, and i know you've heard this over and over, but take my advice just do it...you'll feel a lot better. but only rush into breaking up if ur absolutely sure it's what you want...well i'm no dear abby but i hope this tip works for ya!

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From http://www.tv.com/
breaking-up-with-shannen-doherty/
show/59371/summary.html

Breaking Up With Shannen Doherty

Shannen Doherty, host of Oxygen’s new show Breaking Up , helps people through awkward break up situations like breaking up with a significant other, moving out on a roommate, and ending a flakey friendship. In each episode Doherty will go undercover to investigate the toxic relationship and if she decides a break up in is order she will instigate it.

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From www.apple.com/
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breakingalltherules/medium.html

Breakin' All the Rules - Medium

A film about a man who, after being unceremoniously dumped by his fiancee, pens a "how to" book on breaking up and becomes a best-selling author on the subject.

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From http://www.tv.com/
less-than-perfect/breaking-up/
episode/228637/summary.html

Breaking Up TV
Episode Number: 16 Season Num: 1

After breaking up with Charlie, Claude gets sucked into escorting Will's fiancée, Dani, to a bridal shop. When Claude has a meltdown in the dressing room, Ramona orchestrates an impromptu break-up/slumber party, led by Lydia. Meanwhile, Owen and Carl scheme to crash the slumber party across the hall; and Kipp tries to ghostwrite Will's autobiography, but Will can't seem to come up with any useful stories.

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From http://community.eons.com/
groups/topic/2002-Breaking-up

Breaking up

If you could change anything about your breakup with a former spouse, what would it be?

(RESPONSE)

Re: Breaking up

Not have married her to begin with.

(RESPONSE)

Re: Breaking up

I would have had the maturity to just break things off instead of cheating. We weren't meant for each other, and we're both happier apart, but I made things more difficult than they had to be.

(RESPONSE)

Re: Breaking up

To accept the fact that its over. And to walk...no...run really fast away. And not look back!

(RESPONSE)

Re: Breaking up

Should not have gotten involved in first place, definetely let should have let agape rule over eros

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Re: Breaking up

Letting go has to be one of the most difficult life lessons. I wish I hadn't let the marriage last 16 years and that I had taken the first step towards dissolution. As it was, after all that time there were so many dissapointments along the way that being presented with papers was just another way of feeling victimized instead of empowered. Took me a long time to get my "mojo" back.

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Break ups

I have been divorced twice. If I could change anything, I would learn to negotiate the stormy sea of divorce by avoiding the ship-destroying rocks of resentment and bad feelings. Why couldn't partners who started out as my best friends still remain friends? What did I need to do to negotiate these waters?

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Not

I wouldn't have ended my marriage. I was immature, self-centered, and didn't appreciate my dear mate.

(RESPONSE)

Breaking up

I would have been more assertive about what I needed instead of passive agressive. I would have tried harder to overlook some of his issues that irritated me. I wouldn't have given up so easily.

(RESPONSE)

breaking up...

isn't all it's cracked up to be!

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Breaking Up.......

Mine never happened.....lots of times it seemed appropriate, but alternatives were lacking, or an obligation deterred us....so here we are, "celebrating" fifty years of marriage. What a crock. There should be term limits on marriage.

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The Bitter with the Sweet

On the subject of what I'd do differently in splitting up with a spouse:

I wouldn't have given up the opportunity to know him. We had many good times together. But I would've left him sooner. Since I left he's faced down his demons and defeated them. And while I'm glad his life is back in order I'm proceeding with the divorce because it's the right thing to do for me.

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From http://www.enotalone.com/82-1.html

Breaking Up is Hard on More Than Two

Whether you have lived together for two years, or been married for fifteen, your breakup affects friends, family, and, most importantly, children if you have them. There has been so much focus in the media on the question, Are you the one for me?

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From http://www.webmd.com/
content/article/72/81714.htm

Breaking Up Is Really Hard (on You?) Combination of Loss and Humiliation May Trigger Depression

By Jennifer Warner

Breaking up is not only hard to do, but a romantic split may also be especially hard to handle and possibly trigger a bout of depression. A new study shows romantic breakups can literally add insult to injury by piling humiliation on top of loss, dramatically increasing the risk of depression.

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From http://www.wholefamily.com/
aboutyourmarriage/breaking_up/
q_and_a/heartbroken.html

Heartbroken Wife

Dear WholeFamily Counselor,

My husband says he only loves me sometimes. He doesn't even want to come home, even when I am not at home! When I am at home he says the reason he does not want to come home is because he "does not want to put up with me."

He says one day that he wants a divorce, and the next day he doesn't. I do not want a divorce, I love my husband very, very much. I would like him to love me again!

Please help me if you can.

Desperately, depressed wife

Dear Depressed Wife,

You describe certain facts that suggest that your husband doesn't love you anymore, and yet you still love him desperately. You do not give information about your couple relationship.

- How long have you been married?

- Did you get married out of mutual love?

- Do you have children together?

People don't stop loving each other just like that. Falling out of love is a process, like falling in love. It may be a long process, and, if you look at it carefully and sincerely, with your eyes wide open, you will be able to see and understand what brought you both to this situation in your marriage.

It is always important, even necessary, to look back in order to understand the roots of the current problem.

Here are some questions that may clarify what I mean by 'trying to look back in order to understand':

1. When you got married, what was the contract between you and your husband? On what basis did you make your emotional commitment? What were your mutual expectations?

2. Have these expectations been satisfied or answered, or have you been disappointed?

3. What kind of relationship do you manage to have now?

- How do you communicate?

- Do you talk openly to each other or do you keep your feelings to yourselves? - Do you share thoughts that may make you feel uneasy, like fear, jealousy, anger, lack of confidence etc.?

- Or do you communicate through negative and bad thoughts or feelings, more than through love, openness, appreciation, reinforcement etc.?

- Are you aware of having conflicts between you and are these conflicts put on the table?

- Or is everything 'under the carpet'?

- When you argue (if you argue), how do you end your fights?

- Are you able to apologize and resolve the fight?

- How do you make up?

- Do you share common interests?

- How is your sexual life together? Is it worse than it was at the beginning and, if yes, why?

- Besides your marital relationship, how is your life in general? Are you satisfied with it?

After asking yourself all those questions, my suggestions to you are:

1. Stop being desperately depressed and start to look at reality as it is. Despair, depression, and self-pity are overwhelming you and paralyzing you from reacting and doing something to make a change.

2. Have the courage to open a dialogue with your husband to discuss the issues which bother you, but present yourself as a thinking and rational woman, not as a desperately depressed wife. Tell him what you are willing to do in order to keep the marriage, and what you are not willing to take anymore. And of course, listen to what your husband has to say.

3. This can be the beginning of a new contract between you, based on expectations that are more realistic. Have the courage to see what is wrong in your relationship and to evaluate the things that you want and can change.

4. Start to live your life: invest yourself in work, studies, hobbies, friends, family etc. Take care of yourself by doing exercise, eating well and thinking positive thoughts to give you strength to continue and prevent despair and depression. You can become an active participant in your life by choosing to do what feels good for you.

Good luck,

Arlette Simon, MSW

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From http://www.power-of-attorneys.com/
breakingup.htm

Breaking Up Is Hard To Do Jokes

“For a while, we pondered whether to take a vacation or get a divorce. We decided that a trip to Bermuda is over in two weeks, but a divorce is something you always have.” - Woody Allen

“I was married by a judge. I should have asked for a jury.” - Groucho Marx.

Q: Why are divorces so expensive?
A: Because they are worth it.

Marriage is grand - and divorce is about ten grand.

“The secret to a happy marriage remains a secret.” - Henny Youngman

One woman says to another, “Isn’t your wedding ring on the wrong finger?’ The other woman replies, “Why, yes, it is. I married the wrong man.”

Then there was the woman who said, “I never knew what real happiness was until I got married; and then it was too late.”

It has been said that man is incomplete until he is married. Then he is finished.

“She was a great housekeeper,” said a recent divorcee. “When we divorced, she kept the house.”

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A guy walks into a post office one day to see a very well dressed, middle aged, balding man standing at the counter sealing a huge stack of bright pink envelopes with hearts all over them. With his curiosity getting the better of him, the guy goes over to the man and asks him what is he doing. The man says, “I’m sending out 1,000 valentine cards signed, ‘Guess who?’”

“But why would you do that?”

“I’m a divorce lawyer,” the man replied.

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From http://experts.about.com/
q/General-Dating-Questions-847/
breaking-2.htm

Experts > People/Relationships > Dating > General Dating Questions > breaking up

Subject: breaking up

Question

i'm an 18 yr old who just recently (4 days ago) broke up with my b/f of 1yr&7mos. we still call eachother when we get upset about it b/c we agreed to try to be friends. (i'm his first g/f) i broke it off b/c i want to start seeing other people and seeing what else there is out there (but i didnt tell him that) and i just dont feel the way i used to feel about him. he calls me hysterical crying, i just feel sooo bad and hate the fact that i'm the one that hurt him. we sometimes talk about getting back together, but i honostly dont think i want to. any advice on how to help make him feel better without me and to get us both through this? (p.s.- i asked you this question b/c i need to hear a guys point of view on this, since i'm trying not to hurt my ex-guy anymore than i have to). thnx!

Answer

I tell people I like to be people's friends forever, yet forever is a hard word to keep. However, I know when I marry, I will make this forever for I can live with the up's and down's of the hard road, yet in dating we must answer the question if he or she is the one we can spend the rest of the life with so the road is a drop better. You said you can't spend the rest of your life together and this is fine. You and him will move on, yet you can still be both friends. My advice is help him find another girlfriend. Good luck and ask follow ups.

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From http://experts.about.com/
q/General-Dating-Questions-847/
breaking.htm

Experts > People/Relationships > Dating > General Dating Questions > breaking up

Subject: breaking up

Question

Is it proper to give someone a "Dear John" letter? And if so, should this be handed to them or mailed?

Thanks!

Answer

A letter is always the last way to do it. Its better then just ignoring the person.

The best way to break up is to be face to face and with honesty. Honesty can hurt a little at the time but is always better in the long run. Being honest alows both of you to grow from the relationship.

The next would be on the phone so at least its voice to voice. Again being honest is the best way.

Then a letter. The problem with a letter is the person writing the letter knows what they are trying to say but the person reading the letter might not view the words in the same way as the writer. It opens the door to very hurt feelings that could be smoothed over if done face to face or on the phone.

The worst way to break up is to just ignore the person. That always hurt everyone. It doesn't let both people deal with the break up. The only time this can be an option is if the person is abusive and talking about this could bring you harm.

I hope this helps.

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From http://teenadvice.about.com/
od/factsheetsforteens/a/
10thingsbreakup.htm

10 Things You Oughta Know About... Breaking Up

From Mike Hardcastle,

A Top 10 Fact Sheet on Breaking Up

1. More often than not, breaking up is as hard on the person ending the relationship as it is on the person being broken up with

2. Nobody likes to hurt another person, especially somebody they have been close to

3. Being broken up with does not mean that there is something wrong with you; it just means that there is something that is not working in the relationship

4. It is all right to cry, get mad and feel hurt when you are dumped

5. Breaking up is never easy. You will have good days and you will have bad days

6. Break ups are often followed by one of the parties starting a new relationship and when this happens it can bring up all sorts of old feelings

7. Acting out in anger is never good for anybody

8. A big part of the pain of breaking up comes from a feeling of embarrassment

9. Nobody ever deserves to be hurt

10. Things may seem bleak now but you never know what the future may hold for you and your ex

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From http://messageboards.ivillage.com/
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Breaking Up Is Hard to Do

Breaking up is never easy, and the healing process is long and hard. But sometimes it’s soothing just to know that people are there for you.

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From http://teenadvice.about.com/
cs/breakingup/a/breakuphelper.htm

Breaking Up and Moving On

From Mike Hardcastle

8 Things that will heal a broken heart.

Breaking up is never fun. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people. If the break up was mutual both people will experience a period of adjustment where they are getting used to no longer being together. If the break up was not mutual the person who ended things may be dealing with guilt and feelings that they may have made a mistake. The person being broken up with will definitely have to adjust, first to being rejected and second to life without somebody they still care for. How do you get through those first few weeks? Here we list eight essential things everybody must do in the early days of a break up to let the healing begin.

1. Avoid the former love.

2. Talk out your feelings with close friends.

3. Cry if you want to.

4. Let go of mementos.

5. Don’t slip up and get together with your ex.

6. Focus on all the things about your ex that drove you crazy, turned you off, or that you just plain found annoying.

7. Think about the mean, cruel or rude things your ex may have done in your relationship.

8. Maintain a strict no contact policy and stick with it.

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Breaking Up? Not So Hard to Do

By AMMU KANNAMPILLY

As anyone who has had a relationship knows, breaking up is hard to do. But for some, it just got easier.

If you live in Germany, have $25 to spare, and a partner you wish to be rid of, all you need to do is contact Bernd Dressler of the Separation Agency in Berlin.

For $25, he will call your ex and deliver the bad news. You can either opt for the sensitive "Let's just be friends" approach, or, if the thought of seeing him or her again is just too much to bear, select the somewhat harsher "Leave me alone" package.

For $40, Dressler will even pay a personal visit to deliver the message — it's called a Personal Termination Call, in case you were wondering — to the (usually) shocked dumpee.

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